Logging into wp-admin just gets me the home page

That sounds very frustrating for sure! Sorry you’re running into this issue. Have you tried manually navigating to the dashboard? Try going to https://whitestonelife.com/wp-admin and see if that works.

I would also suggest going through the troubleshooting guide on logging in. Usually, it’s one of the issues listed here: https://www.ads-software.com/documentation/article/troubleshoot-login-issues/

It sounds to me like your user no longer has a role or a very small role. Do you have another user who is an administrator? Log in with that user and change the other user’s role.

If that doesn’t work, you could only give the user their role via the database. But we’ll come to that if it’s necessary.