Displaying Subpages of Parent only?!?!

Hi Ppl,

i got a problem, i just can’t get it working….
I have a sidebar which only appears if the page has subpages and it lists only direct ones.
So if I would have page1,page2,page3 with page3 only having subpages called subpage3a, subpage3b it seems working fine.

But with the code below I have 2 problems.

Problem 1: When clicked on a subpage the sidebar dissapears….that should not happen.

Problem 2: If I add Subpages to subpage3a f.e. then the menu stays the same and it does not display the childs of subpage3a.

I’m not the big coder, i out this together with snippets of code. So I hope someone could help me!

<?php

$children = wp_list_pages('title_li=&child_of='.$post->ID.'&echo=0&depth=1');
if ($children) { ?>

<div class="sidebarwrap">

<?php
$title = get_the_title($post);
$parent_title = get_the_title($post->post_parent);

if(is_page()) { $image=$title.'.png'; };
if(!file_exists(TEMPLATEPATH.'/images/'.$image)) { $image=$title.'.png'; }
echo '<img src="'.get_bloginfo('template_url').'/images/'.$image.'" alt="" />'; ?>

<?php if ( is_page() ) { ?>
<?php
if($post->post_parent)
$children = wp_list_pages('title_li=&child_of='.$post->post_parent.'&echo=0&depth=1'); else
$children = wp_list_pages('title_li=&child_of='.$post->ID.'&echo=0&depth=1');
if ($children) { ?>

<?php echo $children; ?>

<?php } } ?>

</div>
<?php } ?>