Youtube Video Problem (this one is difference.. trust me)

Try making a video “private” but still allwing it to be embeded. Now… embed it in a worspress post and hit play.. sure it plays fine. log out of youtube or get a friends to try and play it from his pc… voila.. the video does not play it gets stuck on the “loading” screen.
does anyone know of a way or can figure out a way around this?