Howdy ba95472,
I am sorry. It’s not fun to feel ignored. We have a put up a notice in as many places as we can here on .org letting users know that we ordinarily do a pass once each week in the free forums, but it can still be easy to miss.
If you are waiting on a response from a Tribe rep, it is likely to come the following week except in rare circumstance. If you need faster support you might consider a PRO license, which includes our PRO forums that are monitored by multiple people every day. Responses times are generally quite a bit less than 24 hours during weekdays.
If you go to yourwebsite.com/events/feed/ you should find it to be in the same order as it is on wpshindig, assuming you are running the latest version which I believe you said you are in another topic. That is the feed that our plugin basically generates. It is the one we have control over. Any thing which imports that feed directly will see the order like that. But other plugins, widgets, and what not might order by publish date instead. In order to get them to sort differently, you would need to figure out how to modify their sort order. Then you could cast the meta key _EndDate as a date and sort by it instead. Tha’s probably one of the harder things to tackle, so you will need a good bit of PHP and some SQL under your belt for it to go smooth.
Cheers!
– Brook