OK, some pointers;
1. you have _a lot_ of 3rd party code (JavaScript) slowing your site down (as Pagespeed says; “Third-party code blocked the main thread for 7,260 ms”), consider removing some of those or replacing them by less performance-impacting alternatives
2. you seem not to using JavaScript optimization in Autoptimize, did it not work at all?
3. a lot of the images are Elementor background images and those are not lazyloaded (AO cannot “see” those and hence AO’s lazyload does not help). https://www.ads-software.com/plugins/lazy-load-background-images-for-elementor/ might help, but it seems not to be developer actively an more, so you might want to look into using Elementor elements that do _not_ rely on background images?
4. in Autoptimize the biggest gains can be found in ensure the CSS is not render-blocking; for that have a look at the “eliminate render-blocking CSS” option, but do take into account you’ll have to either;
a) generate & copy/paste the “above the fold CSS” in the field below (more info in the AO FAQ, look for “inline & defer CSS”) OR
b) create manual rules on the “critical CSS” tab (generating critical css for each rule) OR
c) take a subscription over at criticalcss and paste your API in the field on the critical CSS tab
hope this helps,
frank