Constant Connection Timeouts when editing, posting .. anything on wordpress

Hello, I’m a BIG wordpress fan .. until I get a connection time out error.

I’m busy editing my blog for a business re-launch tomorrow and I’m facing time out error after time out error. I can have an amount of time where it all works smoothly no problems.

Then I get the horror times where I can’t even refresh a page twice without getting an error on the second refresh! I have several blogs self hosted on my server with GoDaddy and when I edit one blog and then get a time out connection error, it knocks down all other blogs within my hosting plan as well! I DO NOT UNDERSTAND?!

How can editing one blog, call all my blogs to go down for me? I’ve been on several very long calls with GoDaddy and the issue is not with them, its not an ISP issue as all my traceroute pings go through smoothly.

I’ve deactivated all plugins and gone back to the basic theme, not my customised Thesis them that I normally use (which is very pretty and functionally being souped up with custom loops which I’m learning).

So its not the server, its not my ISP, its not my theme or my plugins that are causing the issue. What else is left to check?

I’ve create a post and done various image editing things on my other blog and that didn’t cause it to fail. So why is it, when I work on my main business blog of https://www.cathiegraphy.com/ that I edit or do something and it falls over and affects all my other blogs, but not in reverse when i edit those other blogs?! Curiouser and curiouser.

What on earth causes time out connections on wordpress that is stripped down to bare basics to help improve connection speeds and yada yada …. no clue what to do next. As editing one blog, means all my other blogs go down. I’ve even created a new database, transfered all my blog posts and I’m on a new updated hosting plan server and I still get this issue.

PLEASE HELP ME!!