Fallback image issue in desktop view

I’va already a post about this is issue, but after the upgrade is even worst.

The video fallback image, after the upgrade, it apears and is seen more time than ever.
AS you sugested, i talk to my web hosting, and this is nothing to do with them, but with the elementor.

Today i try the same settings with divi and the fallback image only shows is mobile, as it should be.

If you cant solve this and the other issues, is better to stop that this a pro something.
Indeed, the most i know, the most i think this is absolute garbage and you are joking with people money.