i cant receive emais

RE: but the replies are going into flamingo

This is a very clear indication that CF7 is sending the email.

So your email is probably being seen as spam somewhere in the email process. This is usually due to email headers (in particular the From email address used) or email content.

Important to remember there are a lot of places, other than your spam folder, where emails can be trapped as spam.

??See Contact Form 7 Email Issues – this links to a much more comprehensive article which also covers emails being considered spam.

See also Best Practice to Set Up Mail?.
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Hey there!

I’m Adam, I work for the support department of Astoundify.

In order for us to help you as fast and efficiently as possible, I would like to invite you over to our help desk where you can safely share your website link and login details if necessary. Using our help desk it keeps everything super organized to keep the conversation going.

Please register at our help desk or you can browse our theme resources centre which contains many detailed video tutorials and theme documentation. Once logged in, feel free to create a new support ticket here.

We are looking forward to helping you over on our help desk.

Cheers! Adam

Adam, you should look over Forum Welcome before promoting your service.

https://codex.www.ads-software.com/Forum_Welcome#Helping_Out

If you’re helping out, do your best to fully assist the person having the issues, and do not use your support as an excuse to promote your own site/themes/plugins. That behavior is frowned upon.

Similarly, we ask that you not demand payment, solicit work, or take the conversation to a private location. The point of helping out on the www.ads-software.com forums is to help out on the forums.