I love the plugin but!

The view is amazing and it need some time to understand it all but I keep struggling and cant do what I really want to do, I had the free version and created a small store, I was overwhelmed by the posting options so decided to add those in the options, just let people add the posting there and set free posting when checking out, funny enough soon I activate Options in the product I had no option to Buy anymore, and no the setting was not done to catalog, then the day later I had it all working stripe paypal and shipping separated but I very dislike the idea that shipping be added later when they check out imigine I have products that be shipped for high prices so people might leave it soon they see the shipping cost on the end, and with leaving it the product sticks in the cart I only have one of each so it stops others to buy it, I would like to see an option with BUY NOW no card issues than for me , when i decided to do the free trial of the pro version my stripe didn’t work anymore and i cant get it working anymore, its sad because i really like the plugin with not added all kind of other plugins spreaded trough WP but i think its not for what i need i just cant get it working the way how i want , i have left it behind now with optional activated, and posting activate, its not set in catalog mode so that should be fine , soon i disable options the button of add to cart is there again but no shipping rates shown while its not selected in the settings to hide, set now with a standard shipping option, no choice and only Paypal

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