Lazy Load iframe issue with Youtube Videos

Hi, I’ve been looking around for a good Lazy Load plugin for my images and youtube videos.

Seems all the Lazy Load plugins I try have the exact same problem.
I like the settings on your plugin and I’m going to use it permanently. But I’m not sure what the deal is with the Youtube iframe problem. All the videos I use on my website automatically show up as 6:9 aspect ratio and look good, but when I enable “Video and iframes”, the videos end up as squares in a 6:6 aspect ratio and look ugly.

If I disable “in Content” it goes back to normal but that just disables lazy load on them.

I use Classic Mode and TinyMCE. Adding the full Youtube iframe embed video code or just the URL makes no diference.

Here are two examples.

This is with “Video and iframes” disabled (normal layout look)
https://destructiveburn.com/personal-files/WordPress-Support/Lazy-Load/lazy-load-disabled.jpg

This is with “Video and iframes” enabled
https://destructiveburn.com/personal-files/WordPress-Support/Lazy-Load/lazy-load-activated.jpg

Any ideas how to solve this?

Also would love to add a request. Not sure if you will take it in here or not but under “Effect & Style” would be cool if we can use our own spinner. ??