let me do the <br> tags as i want

it looks like me break tags were replaced by breaks here

This isn’t WordPress. Its bbPress.

Find the_content() in your theme files. If you replace that with a simple echo $post->post_content you’ll basically echo exactly what is in the DB, without any filtering at all. Warning: that is a quick but brute force fix and any plugin that hooks to the_content won’t work and the ‘more’ link won’t work either. You are better off figuring out which filters are being applied and selectively removing the ones you don’t want using remove_filter.
Search your WP files for lines where add_filter and the_content show up on the same line. That ought to tell you which filters are being applied. ‘wpautop‘ is one of them.

try this plugin
https://www.ads-software.com/extend/plugins/ps-disable-auto-formatting/

Oh… that plugin is handy. I didn’t know about it.

you are simply the best..awesome plugin…FINALLY