My Toolbar seems incomplete… explanation?

Use the more button where you want the Continue Reading to appear.

I tried that but nothing seems to happen? But my other question is why don’t I see it like this:

https://support.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/visual-editor-insert-more-tag11.jpg

I tried that but nothing seems to happen?

Perhaps your theme doesn’t honor the more tag. Or it uses the _excerpt instead of the_content. Have you tried switching to the Twenty Ten theme to rule out any theme-specific problems?

why don’t I see it like this

Because you’re using the HTML tab and not the Visual Editor.

Its true I may be using the HTML editor but as you can see I don’t even have an option for a Visual editor

Check that you haven’t disabled it in your Profile.

where would I find the option to disable it, I’ve search through and through

Look for rich-text editor on your Profile page (Users->Your Profile).

ok that seems to have done it, thanks a bunch