Need help adjusting Buddypress to existing theme

Could any one help me update my buddypress files so they can work with my existing them? or is there a way someone can do this with a logon if we set them up safely?

We’ve tried the reading how to adjust your files to work with my theme and really need a step by step guide on this.

https://electrofriends.com/qna/web-development/wordpress-faq/integrate-buddypress-wordpress-theme/

we tried following this them but it did not work for us ??

We are using Florenty 1.0 by NewWpThemes.com

Much thank you in advanced!!