cant get pages to display in footer

Hi Hope someone can help i am a little stumped here, i have buddypress installed and can only view my footer pages when logged in as admin.

If i log out they disappear from view, even if i type in the url i get a 404 error. If i then log in as admin they show up and the text is displayed.

I have a custom menu set up in wordpress, Appearance – menus, labelled as footer.

I am running a custom theme with bp-columns.

I was wondering if anyone could point me in the direction of how to get them to show up all the time as the pages are for terms, privacy, blog, about us etc. I am not a programmer so please be patient. Any help much appreciated.

Thanks