Pagespeed is still asking me to defer

hi there,

i have tried a lot of these plugins and I liked the look of yours for the control.

all others don’t seem to be able to include the theme and the video on my homepage never loads.

sp.ypurs seemed to be working wel, I have set my js to defer and have added the recaptcha and tag manager to the defer list.

but pagespeed still says they are there and to defer them.

my page score has even gone slower.

hopefully someone can help me

Thanks

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