Permalink Settings issues?

Hello, firstly on wordpress.com was trying to get the widget to do its thing, connecting with my wordpress domain.

My domain
myweb-municipality.com
But will not connect to my other blogs.
howing recent posts. Sorry may be long here.

For instance the widget on wordpress in sidebar. I know are familiar with setup ofits imput. on wordpress.com

Such as the wordpress.com widget.

Widget
Blog URL:

Enter a WordPress.com or Jetpack WordPress site URL.

Number of Posts to Display: 1234 selected=’selected’5678910

Show Featured Image:

CCP

I do have jetpack installed and activated.in page location. On blog page where I place it, this every time too on my two blogs.

“e cannot load blog data at this time. “

Now is something has me confused which may even not e related. When I go to permalink settings on .org domain

I am seeing this.As mentioned have jetpack activated. top of permalink settings page.
Exactly as..

“omething has gotten mixed up!

Your siteurl option is set up as https://myweb-municipality.com, but your WordPress.com connection lists it as 0!

Your home option is set up as https://myweb-municipality.com, but your WordPress.com connection lists it as 1!

The data listed above is not for my current site. Please disconnect, and then form a new connection to WordPress.com for this site using my current settings.

Ignore the difference. This is just a staging site for the real site referenced above.

That used to be my URL for this site before I changed it. Update the WordPress.com Cloud’s data to match my current settings.”

Not quite sure what it that means. I uninstalled jetpack with my domain with .com logged out. when first installed logged in.

I tried to make this concise as possible.

Also may be screw up with grammar and such. I have fairly bad hand tremors and even screwed up CCP at places. Could add 1 more thing may not matter

Honestly tired of trying to correct it all.

Thx