Plugin doesn't show up

This looks like a theme compatibility issue with the theme you’re using (FolioGridPro) and a conflict with BuddyPress.

The theme looks like it’s de-registering the jQuery version that comes with WordPress and registering its own (a bad practice).

Take a look at your theme’s header.php file and see if that’s the case. It’s probably either in there, or in functions.php.

I’m afraid I can’t be of more help without actually looking at the theme’s source code.

ok, but what sholud i look for in header.php and functions.php?
and how can i posibbly fix this?

You would look for something like wp_deregister_script( 'jquery') or wp_enqueue_script('jquery') or something equivalent.

Basically, the problem is, it looks like the theme is overwriting WordPress’ version of jQuery and supplying a much older version (1.4.2). The version you’re currently running is 1.7.2.

If you have any issues, you may need to bring it up with your theme support and direct them to this post.

ok, thanks so much for your guidance ?? i will see what i can do….