{Plugin: WP_Members Woocommerce] Manage User Registration Not working

I’ve been slamming my head against this for the past week and I’m hoping someone can see where I’ve gone wrong.

What Im trying to do:

1. make a wholesale site that requires user registration prior to entering the site
2. Add more fields to the registration form
3. Have the registration be managed by an admin (do not permit automatic registration

Using Woocommerce and another plugin called “Privacy_Only” I’ve managed to achieve #1 (digging through forums it seems that page locking is possible using wp_members, but that’s never worked for me). #2, and especially #3 are what are throwing me. When I activate WP_members what happens is that the additional fields it adds automatically are added to the registration fields that wooCommerce has. So it goes:

Username:
Email
Password
(awkward short separating space)
first name
last name
…

Ideally Id like wp_members to completely control the registration fields, but when I set a registration page via the settings no registration form is on that page. I can live with the double forms, but I have no idea how its happening. #3 Moderating user registration is what is especially driving me crazy. Ive set WP_members to moderate registration but when I test the system nothing works as expected — An email is sent to the registered email saying “here is your login info” using wp_members form, and no notification is sent to the admin email account.

I’m hoping someone can help point out how I can force the moderate registration feature of wp_members but I’d also welcome any help in understand how I could resolve some of the other oddities.

Cheers!