Removing Hooks remove_action/filter

Hi
I tried adding a remove_action(‘um_profile_header’, ‘um_profile_header’, 9 ); in my functions.php but it’s not responding and continues to execute the profile header.

I also want to remove the show_meta function from um-profile.php file. What is the proper way to remove it?

Thank you

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