sociable stylesheet (not active)

In my sociable settings I have checked to use the sociable stylesheet and to use thickbox/iframe.

When I view my thickbox stylesheet (and thickbox.js) and sociable stylesheet they all say (after the filename at the top “(not active)”

And if I am reading the stylesheet correctly, the sociable icons should have a background and a border, while my icons do not have either on the site pages.

The kicker is I have edited thickbox.css TB_overlayBG to change the background color successfully (remember, it says it is inactive)

So why are these files showing “inactive” with the control page checkboxes checked. And why isn’t the sociable.css file working?

Thanks,
JEDs