Hi Ryan,
The “Tailor this..” link should appear automatically assuming the plugin is activated and pages are supported (assuming it’s a page you’re trying to Tailor) in the admin settings. Links should appear in both the “action menu” (I think that’s what it’s called) in the page list and the Admin Bar.
Below are screenshots of the admin settings, action menu and Admin Bar links, respectively:
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If it’s a clean install of WordPress, with no other plugins installed and running the latest version of Tailor there’s no reason why these links shouldn’t be showing. I’d suggest starting there and then re-enabling any custom plugins or code that you have to see what, if anything, is causing the problem. We can then address any plugin conflicts that exist.
Hope that helps. Let me know how you get on ??
Andrew.