To disable autoplay of embedded video…

I have been working on this all day, so I hope I can get some good advice. I wish to disable autoplay of an embedded video. I have read that this is a common problem while using Tiny CMS and with some basic WP installations. I have shift to using FCK Editor and have tried altering the code multiple ways, but nothing seem sto work.

Here is the code:

<OBJECT id=ciscoDigitalCribs codeBase=https://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=9,0,0,0 height=342 width=494 align=middle classid=clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000><PARAM NAME=”_cx” VALUE=”5080″><PARAM NAME=”_cy” VALUE=”5080″><PARAM NAME=”FlashVars” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”Movie” VALUE=”https://digitalcribs.net/UGCPlayer.swf?xmlURL=https://release.theplatform.com/content.select?pid=WfUSCNWmO_ciuSej6SOtRBGvaU7W_3r_&bookmarkURL=https://www.digitalcribs.net/DisplayVideo.aspx?id=971391211&flvTitle=Digital Troubadours”><PARAM NAME=”Src” VALUE=”https://digitalcribs.net/UGCPlayer.swf?xmlURL=https://release.theplatform.com/content.select?pid=WfUSCNWmO_ciuSej6SOtRBGvaU7W_3r_&bookmarkURL=https://www.digitalcribs.net/DisplayVideo.aspx?id=971391211&flvTitle=Digital Troubadours”><PARAM NAME=”WMode” VALUE=”Window”><PARAM NAME=”Play” VALUE=”-1″><PARAM NAME=”Loop” VALUE=”-1″><PARAM NAME=”Quality” VALUE=”High”><PARAM NAME=”SAlign” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”Menu” VALUE=”-1″><PARAM NAME=”Base” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”AllowScriptAccess” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”Scale” VALUE=”ShowAll”><PARAM NAME=”DeviceFont” VALUE=”0″><PARAM NAME=”EmbedMovie” VALUE=”0″><PARAM NAME=”BGColor” VALUE=”000000″><PARAM NAME=”SWRemote” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”MovieData” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”SeamlessTabbing” VALUE=”1″><PARAM NAME=”Profile” VALUE=”0″><PARAM NAME=”ProfileAddress” VALUE=””><PARAM NAME=”ProfilePort” VALUE=”0″><PARAM NAME=”AllowNetworking” VALUE=”all”><PARAM NAME=”AllowFullScreen” VALUE=”true”>
<embed src=”https://digitalcribs.net/UGCPlayer.swf?xmlURL=https://release.theplatform.com/content.select?pid=WfUSCNWmO_ciuSej6SOtRBGvaU7W_3r_&bookmarkURL=https://www.digitalcribs.net/DisplayVideo.aspx?id=971391211&flvTitle=Digital Troubadours” quality=”high” bgcolor=”#000000″ width=”494″ height=”342″ name=”ciscoDigitalCribs” align=”middle” allowFullScreen=”true” type=”application/x-shockwave-flash” pluginspage=”https://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer&#8221; /></OBJECT><IMG style=”VISIBILITY: hidden; WIDTH: 0px; HEIGHT: 0px” height=0 src=”https://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.0NXC/bT*xJmx*PTEyMzI1NTA*ODY4NzImcHQ9MTIzMjU1MDYxNjg3MSZwPTMyODM2MiZkPSZnPTImdD*mbz**ZjYyNzRmMjE1Y2Y*OWZmYTJlNjA2ZTg1NDYyODkwMg==.gif&#8221; width=0 border=0>

I am using WP version 2.6.2.

Thanks!