Trying to get the Blog to look like my site

PLEASE Help me!!!

The very quick and dirty way would be to dispense with themes entirely. It’s something I’ve always done – more for lack of time to themeize my site than anything else. What you can do is to put $wp_template_redirect = false; before your call to wp-blog-header.php. That will cause php to continue processing index.php looking for a wp rotor rather than looking in the themes directory.

I then use output escaping

ob_start();
…wp-rotor, etc
$results = ob_get_contents();
ob_end_clean();

to write the output of wordpress to the $results variable. I can then pipe that into my standard site wide template system. In fact I use output buffering several times to capture the various header and sidebar outputs.

It’s not perfect and I really should use themes, but I found that it makes wordpress easier to embed within an existing site.