Videos Are Prloading Causing Site to slow Down – NSFW

I just uploaded a 70mb video…go check the main page out and see for yourself

I found this answer in my searches…Is there anything I can do like this? He said to “Don’t include the code in your page. Inject it into the page once the user clicks a fake PLAY button.”

Seems dumb to have to do all that for every post tho..

Alright, I fixed the problem but think that something is without a doubt flawed in wordpress when it comes to videos…Nothing wrong with that but seeing how that is apparently the case it should have a message box or something when you try to add more than one or two videos to any single page that would tell the people that this WILL cause a much greater strain on the server and the internet connection it uses, resulting in very long load times, as a result of multiple videos loading within the same page…Would have saved my whole day today.. ??

Anyways, I searched for a plugin (Don’t like to use too many because of load times but was pretty much left with no choice.) I found the JW Player plugin that loads in a different way and thus discontinues this probblem.
Thank you guys for checking into it and I hope that someday I’ll not need the plugin and just simply be able to post a blog of videos on my wordpress site. Thank you
Hershel Gau
My site without the preloading can be seen here! ??
https://www.sociallybanned.com (NSFW)