Where to find?

did you read the installation instructions?

https://www.ads-software.com/extend/plugins/calendar/installation/

Specifically, #3.

yes i did all that… is there something I’m supposed to change in that code?

ah ha! found it… stupid me… didn’t put the wp-calendar file in the right place

actually another question… is there a way to add the calender to one of the other pages or at least a way to make it so that when i do create a page titled “calendar” or “schedule” it’ll come up with the calendar?

This is not possible in the current version but will be when the next version is released in the not too distant future.