thanks, this got me what I needed. I just made two queries:
numberposts=-1&cat=9129&offset=4&orderby=post_date&showposts=4
and
numberposts=-1&cat=-9129&orderby=post_date&showposts=6
The first one gets that category I wanted, except the 4 most recent.
The second one gets the rest of the categories, excluding the category that I got above. Thanks for your help!