Ok I made copies of everything both before and after I upgraded…. I ended up ftping all of the files except the theme directory and the config file back to 3.3.2 then tried to access the wp-admin. I was prompted that the DB needed to be updated (in this case downdated?) once that was done my original issues with 3.4 were gone… of course I am still looking at the update line in the admin but I can handle that….