okay so now it appears that i am having the exact same problem. I have a wordpress.com account that i bought a domain for. Ive just opened an account with Bluehost, i couldnt transfer my domain because it is less than 60 days old….but i could still add it to my c-panel. I installed wordpress on it and it tells me to log in at
https://www.crackrocksmusic.com/wp-admin
however it always redirects me too the wordpress.com service. I have set this service to private and changed settings to crackrocksmusic.wordpress.com as the primary address.
i have also cleared caches and cookies and nothing seems to happen.
Am i missing something?