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take a look at WordPress MU or WordPress 3.0 for multi user blog sites.

Great job on the site, heres my 2 cents.

First things first – make a back up of what you got

Second –the page not loading may have something to do with zulu.tweetmeme API hanging up. The page is waiting for this connection to complete itself but since it hangs the page won’t finish loading.

Third – try wpcache to speed up your blog and then reload your page to see if still hangs. If it still hangs up try disabling plugin by plugin to get to the source.

Marketing from a womans point of view – love this tag line!
I would love to logon to this site, and see a buddypress install over MU – (or WP 3.0 now) and read the success stories of all the users that participate on this site. This will give you great adsense revenue and will attract a larger audience. By giving your audience the tools they need to succeed you also succeed.

Aesthetically speaking – yes the site appears to be to busy for my personal taste. However that is not to say that it’s not working. Maybe it’s time to look at paying for a good theme?

I like this site flow: While its in a different market I like the way the info flows on : https://www.mikeroweworks.com/mikes-office (the guy from dirtiest jobs)

Also before you start thinking about what you need, It is in my onion that letting your users define the direction of your site is the best thing to do. So while asking us wordpress groupies what we think, perhaps a user survey may be just what the doctor ordered. From there you can take a look at the order from the audience and then make a better plan from there before you move forward.

Good luck!