For HandySolo:
I actually had this problem on 2 blogs. One has multiple users with admin rights, and the other has just one.
But my (stupid) question was actually answered by ladydelaluna. I just hadn’t made the email changes in the options tab. I wrongly assumed that the moderator emails came to either whoever was user-id 1 (or admin), or anybody that had administration rights.
Thanks for the help. ??