Sort of a work around not a solution as such.
I took the plunge and bought Photocrati (I don’t like the theme really, it’s boring) but it does work for private galleries and ordering photos.
It’s also much more expensive than most other themes. You could have your main page with a cool looking wordpress site and then another wordpress install in another folder that houses the Photocrati theme for the private galleries and ordering
It’s a cumbersome solution though we need a reliable plugin for this.
