I see the problem is in the plugin Elementor – Header, Footer & Blocks. When I turn it off I get my menu. I love the plugin I guess I will have to stop using it. I have purchased the GeneratePress theme last night. With that I can sort of create my header although it requires coding which I am not very good at and do not have a lot of time to do. When I go to the plugin support it says it is updated and is compatible with the update so no help there.