Thanks for the tips, actually we have done that. What it appears is the template that was used to create my webpage is a year or so ago is now in conflict with the scripts in the new WP 3.5 upgrade.
At this time we have finally gotten the visual/html/text tabs to work again. But the paypal functionality is still missing. And my second webpage is now displaying a 404 error on the landing home page.
At this time I still can not create links between pagers or even add Media
the webpage is https://www.thereverendlisa.com & https://www.desertoasisweddings.com