I understand that but there’s a trade-off between accessibility (of the people you want to see it) and secrecy.
I simply want a blog that is net based, that (if no-one shares the URL and I opt out of google searches) is fairly hidden from most people.
re: the links – would TinyUrl work? ie. If I linked to a TinyUrl of the site I want to link to – they would see TinyUrl as the referrer and not me?