Check your settings in Settings -> General. Is the Site URL and WordPress Address URL https://www.whyisgodmadatme.com/ or 72.233.2.58?
both are https://www.whyisgodmadatme.com/
You have to check whether or not, your server host allows you to connect to other servers.
If your plugin Askimet runs fine (because it needs to connect to other servers to run), then it’s Jetpack.
Akismet server Network Status
72.233.69.89 Re-trying
72.233.69.88 Re-trying
66.135.58.62 Accessible
66.135.58.61 Accessible
so I’m assuming that it’s my webhost
You need to contact your web hosts about this.
Emailed him, no response of course. Will be calling sometime today or tomorrow.